Thursday, March 27, 2014

TCHIDI CHIKERE AND NUELLA NJUBIGBO TO WED THIS WEEKEND


Nollywood actress, Nuella Njubigbo, and Nollywood director, Tchidi Chikere, will be having their traditional marriage this weekend in Anambra State. This comes 2 years after the film director publicly announced the end of his 9-year marriage with his first wife, Sophia, with whom he had three children. For several years now, rumours have been flying around about his relationship with Nuella Njubigbo, even while he was still married to Sophia. In an attempt to address these rumours, Nuella Njubigbo has released a press statement, in which she claims among other things, that she did not start dating the director until his marriage ended. Read the full statement below:


“Let me start by confirming some of the rumours you may have heard. Yes, the traditional marriage rites between Tchidi Chikere and I will be performed soon. This was not the way we imagined or planned it, but as they say, nobody has a crystal ball to tell where or who we end up with. Life is a dice. 

At the time the rumours of his separation/divorce and me being involved was going on, I definitely was not in that space where some story writers said I was. I was busy doing other things with my life, other preoccupations, a relationship (I thought would lead to marriage), and my acting career. Things happened, my relationship packed up and we went our separate ways, I moved on. 

Tchidi and I have always been friends (As I am with other colleagues), We trade in the same career, but we never crossed that line (we never dated), not to talk of me getting pregnant for him ( I’m presently not pregnant as still being written) sometimes It’s really tiring confirming or refuting some of these rumors. I know some naysayers would still believe what they have made up their minds to believe and stick to; Truth is, I am not making this statement for those set of people, neither am I making it to get people on my side. This statement goes out to those who love me and truly care about me and the way I live my life, and to my very reliable and supportive fans who have been asking questions and deserve to know the truth. 

In the past two years, Tchidi and I worked more, we got closer and more friendly, we were both single and I began to understand and see the real him. Needless to say that I also began to really , really like this real person I was getting to know more and more with every passing day. Then it happened, our hearts clicked. Well, maybe the flying rumours contributed to this and made me look more his way, or it could have been part of life we have no control over. 

Suffice this to say, he proposed to me a while ago and after very careful thought and consideration on every side I said yes. Would I say no because of what people would say and damn where my heart led me? Just like Bill Cosby said, ‘the key to failure is trying to please everybody’. I chose not to take that route, instead follow my heart. My heart is remarkably at peace with this decision, and I am willing to take this leap of faith which every married woman has taken. Where this love will lead me I cannot say, I am not God, but, I have hope, faith and believe that it will lead me to a good place. Every one of us in this life deserves a chance to be happy. I am taking my own chance. 

This is the only statement I am making on this, any other one after this is not from me. I can’t help what people say or write, but please be careful about what you listen to or read and believe. For those who wish me the best, I wish the very best, for those who don’t, I leave you to God who sees and knows all things. Thanks for reading.”


12 comments:

  1. Lies!lies!!lies!!!....the same way he disgraced his exwife,is the same way he will disgrace u...shame on u!of all men,u decide to marry someone's husband!nollywood actresses!

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  2. U can't please every1.. Just move on with ur life(in as much u knw wat u re doing is rite)... Congrt. Wish you are the best.. Happy married life in advance.

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  3. Enjoy d knot dear,prayers wud help u mur! No 1 knws 2moro,so take charge of ur 2day! Wish a a hml wit lots of kisses!

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  4. Stupid gal, u took him away frm his kids and his wife u jezebel only God will pay u. Anuohia!!!

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  5. Well GOD himself is the one that knows the very truth of whatever we say if what you have said is the truth wish you the very best in your marriage but please do not let him forget his kids atleast even if he doesn't want his wife for whatever reason do not let him forget his own kids that I beg of you , Happy married life in advance

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  6. Upon all the rumors you still went ahead and marry the man with 3 kids ,those actress's with married men,well what you soul is what you will reap.

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  7. All that you soul?!LOL! But truly, I echo what anonymous who asked her notto let him forget his kids said. They are important no matter what decisions the adults take. And well, I don't support divorce but l don't support staying in a harmful relationship. All in all, God is the righteous judge.

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  8. Na wa oooo,actress pls stop stilling peoples husband..go and get ur own ooooooooooo... Haba..what you sow you nuella you shall reap it..noncence

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  9. Hey! @ anonymous stealing people husband nt stilling peoples husband ok, for ma actress plz! Plz make sure u made d right decinsions. Neva stp him frm helpn n takin care of his kids, welcum dem as urs. @ tchidi's wife wot r u goin to tell dose ladies u quarrel at peckham london while makin ya hairs yrs bk, u c ya life, rudeness+arrogant+hagard sum men dislike it, I fink u made yaself tew old for him, so pick up yaself n move on ya life to avoid depression ok

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  10. Is this supposed to be a sermon now? pls tell us something else. you are a woman and I believe you wouldn't want another woman to take away your husband for whatever reason. Let your conscience judge you. All the best

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